What If Your Ex Is In A Rebound Relationship?

So, your ex is in a rebound relationship, you want them back, (or maybe they haven't left yet and are unaware that you know what's going on) - what can you do?

A rebound relationship is where a partner to a love relationship feels suddenly dissatisfied and, in some cases, wants a quick, intense "fling" to get some passion back into their life, or it may be that they've just feel like they've had enough - the original relationship has lost it's passion and their spectacles have lost their "rose tints" - someone else has come into their lives and "whisked them off their feet", and now is the time to make up for time lost. Or it may be that you've dumped your partner and they are dating someone else to get over you.

Either way, they're dating to deal with losing you...........

Understand that it doesn't matter whose fault it is. It doesn't matter who ended the relationship - the only thing that counts is if you are really in love, because almost any relationship founded on love can be saved.

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So what do you do?

You need to take time out (stay with me). The end of a relationship is emotionally draining, maintain a sense of perspective and consider the following:

You have two options - option one,  enter into a rebound relationship yourself (see our rebound relationships article ), and all the problems that could make things worse later......

Or, option two, (recommended), take time out and consider the following.

The end of a relationship is emotionally draining - you need to give yourself a break, rather then rush into a rebound relationship.

The key to getting an ex back lies in the four stages of a relationship,

        FORMING, STORMING, NORMING, PERFORMING

Every relationship goes through these stages (even rebound relationships) - the initial "forming", where the excitement of the prospect of a new fulfilling lovefest brings two people together, then the "storming" - a period of adjustment where the gloss goes off the relationship a little and bad habits and annoying tendencies of the new partner have to be dealt with (a reality check if you will), then the self explanatory "norming" as these issues are dealt with which then leads to the "performing" - all systems go!

Think about it.......

The main reason for giving time to yourself is to allow your ex to get to the "storming" part of the relationship.

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You may notice that your ex's new partner is the opposite of you. For example, if you're into sports, they're probably into politics, if you're a "nice guy", they're probably a "bad boy". Use this information to change yourself, just a little. Fact is, they're going to come to the "storming" part of their relationship soon, and then they may well see that the flaws in their new "have a relationship in haste, regret it later" approach hasn't worked, and with a bit of communication, they were way better off with you in the first place.

This is why it's important not to beg or grovel - that makes you look weak and rather unappealing!

Don't be full of apologies or try to convince them that your the love of their life either - they will decide that for themselves.

Then , when you do start to take tentative steps to get back together, make sure you do the one thing that is probably the one underlying reason you ran into problems before.....

TALK TO EACH OTHER! Relations usually fail through lack of communication - it just stops.

Agree to make a concious decision to spend time for talking to each other daily and you'll be on the right path.

 If you are really serious and are prepared to TAKE ACTION, then TW Jackson's "The Magic of Making Up" ios probably one of the best resources out there today, helping so far over 6,000 couples get back together again, and rebound relationships are no exception. Not only does Jackson start by making you take a good look at yourself, he then provides actual strategies for you to use which actually work. So, if you seriously, really want that special one back in your life

To find out (for free!) the first move in getting someone back, even if they're in a new relationship, have a look at the following video from TW himself...

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